Despina
She who bears the wine of life
Character and Dominants : Sociability, Affection, Intuition, Vitality |
Plant : Vine | Animal : Reindeer |
Colour : Red | Zodiac Sign : Libra |
Genre : Female | Numerology : |
Origin : Greek first name | Etymology : |
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Character
Despina, like her plant mascot, the vine, needs a support to grow and prosper, this can either be through marriage, or a rich professional life that gives her the necessary impulsion.
Despina can at first glance seem pretentious and cold but this is more a way of keeping a distance, a system of self defence than a true character trait. In fact, Despina fears appearing vulnerable and becoming attached, she is also quite secretive and reserved.
PSY
Despina is introverted and participates little in life outside, sometimes even fleeing from contact with others. She is not easily influenced and has great confidence in herself when she is supported by her family and friends.
She is a woman who is refined, seductive and full of grace. Despina knows how to stay in her place and, as she possesses true values, will never resort to using moralising dictates or misplaced reproaches to other people.
Despina respects her commitments and will even sacrifice what is necessary to achieve them, a true gift from the heart, devoted and selfless.
For her, friendship is something beautiful and she can quickly feel crushed if betrayed or abandoned as Despina is very sensitive to setbacks, particularly in the emotional sphere. Despina almost has a double vision as she feels and notices the outlines of her life; this isn't just intuition but more presentiment.
A real seductress, even intimidating at times, Despina actually feels quite intimidated herself.
Emotivity
This is the weak point of Despina as she has a strong emotivity compared to her reactivity. So much so that her excess of emotions may make Despina seem cold at times. To hide her strong emotivity Despina will block her reactions to the point of seeming insensitive and distant when facing a situation that touches or moves her as she wishes to protect herself and her feelings from others.
Activity
Despina is very discreet, even secretive, she doesn't seem to wish to show her resolve overmuch but she knows how to use it at the right time. Despina can sometimes allow herself to be overcome by her work, by a business task as her resolve isn't always very strong. She often acts more through obligation, because something should be done than through a real wish or desire. Despina enjoys excellent health and a strong vitality that is supported by a great thirst for life, for fighting on without complaining. Despina is therefore not very sensitive to fatigue. Highly sociable, Despina enjoys receiving people and shows it. Dynamism is not the strong point of Despina's character, in fact she has a tendency to believe that pushing oneself forward, imposing your point of view, is not useful and can actually be misplaced. Actually, to the contrary, she needs to understand and appreciate her true value.
Intellect
Doted with an excellent memory, Despina has a superficial intelligence that although not enabling her to enter into the details does give her a good overall global vision of situations, which in turn can act as a brake during the realisation of projects.
Affection
When Despina becomes attached to someone it is for the long term, even lifelong. This would take a long time to come to fruition but is the result of a prudent analysis and a distinct reserve.
Like the man of her life who she awaits and of whom she has forged an image in her mind, Despina is truly, but discreetly, impassioned who shows a great lucidity in her decisions but a certain utopian aspect in their accomplishment.
Sensoriality
In conclusion
Due to her will and perfect morality, Despina will be able to overcome the great difficulties in her life. She is a very likeable woman but you need to know her well to avoid hurting her, especially as Despina will not offer you an information leaflet on her character.
She detests having to explain her behaviour; this is why she dreams of finding the man who will understand her, who will love her as she is.